How to Work With Fear Around Future Loss

Question & Answer with Manorama

Question:

After reading the recent blog, The Intersection of Gratitude & Loss, I found myself questioning “How does gaining awareness of loss’s role in transformation help me with fear around the deep love I have and, therefore, the loss that will come?” I wonder what the suffering will look like.

Manorama:

Some things you can’t know until you walk through them.

Loss is often like this. It’s a fire of sorts.

You don’t know what chops ya got til the heat is on.

And sometimes you won’t know what you’ll have the strength for until you meet it.

In The Intersection of Gratitude & Loss, I share how the losses we face, lead to transformation.

You ask, how will knowing that loss is ultimately a path to transformation help me when I love deeply and fear the loss…

la mia risposta e qui

Understanding how loss leads to transformation provides 7 key things:

1. a better understanding of the design of the universe and your/the incarnated life.
   

2. when you see this design, you get a sense of how the cosmic forces move (did I lose you yet?)
   

3. loss creates resistance. we resist loss. when you glimpse the cosmic forces at work, you can more easily surrender to their design.